Too Young to Parent: Why It May Be A Good Idea To Spy On Your Child-Parent

A 23-year old “woman” was just arrested for kicking her toddler to death in Pennsylvania. The “woman” at first called 911 saying that her child wasn’t responding and that she didn’t know why, but authorities soon discovered the truth. Details are still coming in, but so far the facts from the medical examiner state that the child suffered multiple contusions to the head and torso and appears to have been malnourished. The “woman” soon admitted thereafter that she did indeed kick her child over and over again.

So, why am I putting the term “woman” in quotes? “Woman” implies that the person is no longer a youth. That she is a mature adult. While this is physically true, it’s my personal opinion that most “adults” under the age of twenty-five are just not emotionally so—especially in this day and age.

Back in the old days—before the 1970s—a good majority of married couples and parents were under the age of twenty-five. It was the norm and yes, they were more mature. They had grown up in the shadow of war and depression and were not expected to go to college in order to start and support a family. They simply did what their parents—and their parents’ parent—had done. Family bonds were stronger. There was a support system of aunts, uncles, grandmothers, sisters, neighbors … family. And there was religion.

But today’s twenty-five year old is far different from yesterday’s. Today’s quarter-century adult is in a state of arrested development. They’ve been weaned on reality television, the Internet, mobile phones, video games and more. They haven’t learned what real responsibility is, because they’ve been given everything (ie: iPhones, Xboxes, Super Sweet 16s) and have been subjected to an extreme amount of outrageousness (Kardashians, cell-phone recorded school fights, The Jersey Shore, accosting of hookers in Grand Theft Auto, etc.). They don’t even understand the reality of the world and what it means to be an adult. That’s why they shouldn’t become a parent.

This “woman” who kicked her toddler to death didn’t fully understand what it means to take care of a child, because she was still one herself. Ask any parent and they will tell you that taking care of kids is HARD. Children cry. They complain. They don’t sleep. They won’t always eat. They want this. They want that. They don’t want this. They don’t want that. And why? Because they’re babies.

In order to be a parent, you should be 100% willing and ready to give up your self. All of you. All of your wants and needs. Because that’s what it takes to raise a child. Having a baby is not about you. It’s about that other life. That life that you brought into this world. And it takes a mature adult to know that. A girl who had that child at twenty or twenty-one is not a mature adult.

Could any of this have been prevented? Well, her case is not a new one. Situations like this play out every day in America. But perhaps—depending on who was in her life—it could have been prevented. I’m almost certain, this “woman” had a smartphone. Perhaps, if her parents had installed a spy cell phone tracker free of contact on their daughter’s device, they could’ve seen or heard some signs of abuse and been able to save their grandchild.

A good spy cell phone tracker could let the user activate the target phone’s microphone and camera in order to survey the “woman’s” surroundings. It could also allow the user to spy cell phone text messages and calls or photos to search for signs of a mental break down.

I’m not saying that a good mobile surveillance product would have saved that baby from being kicked to death, but it could’ve helped. After all, in my opinion, the first sign of a troubled mother should start with her age. If you ask me, twenty-one is far too young to become a mother or father. 

Evaluation of Cell Phone Tracking Software Technology

Cell phone tracking software technology is a considerably new innovation and is evolving rapidly. Every day, a reputable spy cell phone tracker is providing additional features with its software updates. They were first introduced in the market nearly 20 years ago and their popularity is increasing day by day. Nowadays, trust issues arise frequently, even in the strongest of relations, and the cell phone spy apps industry is helping people resolve their disputes in a better manner.

Uses of Spy Cell Phone Apps for Cell Phones

The applications of spy software do not only extend to spying on a cheating boyfriend and keeping an eye on your kids. These spy software and apps have provided users with a chance to protect themselves from cyber crime and other security issues as well.

Theses apps can also help in protecting your privacy and the safety of your home and loved ones. All of this simply depends on the purpose for which you use the spy software.

How to Use Cell Phone Tracking Software?

If you have an access to a smart phone, it is easy to download the setup and install it. In other words, you need to have physical access to the phone. After activating the software or app, you can easily monitor the calls, emails, text messages and web browsing history of the target cell phone. Spy software can function on all basic cell phone operating systems such as android, iPhone, Blackberry, Symbian and Windows. After you are successful in installing the spy software on a device, you can link it to your online account where you can access and manage the information gathered by the software.

Are They Useful?

There is no doubt on the functionality of cell phone tracking software. They can be used for a variety of reasons. As a business owner or manager, you can track the location of your employees if you are in the delivery services.

For example, a pizza delivery guy can be easily tracked by the manager with spy software, which can log his delivery time automatically to the company logs. These logs can be accessed when the performance appraisal is being done for that particular employee.

Other businesses that can benefit from spy apps and software are maid service providers, moving companies, chauffeur services, cab services etc. There are countless ways in which you can customize a particular spy app to aid you in improving your business practices.

Not only can you use these spy software for tracking your employee’s locations, but also their activities. If you are suspicious that any of your employees might sell corporate secrets to your competitor, it is necessary to keep an eye on them to protect your business interests. Moreover, many employees use proxy websites to access social media and gaming sites in their office timings to avoid work. You can use spy software to ensure that your employees are doing the work that they are being paid for.

Lastly, cell phone spy software and apps are armed with countless features. Beware of a promise of free spy apps for cell phones, as a free product generally does not have the same full functionality that a paid product like Surepoint Spy offers. Before installing, ensure that the spy software you are using is power independent. If it’s not, it will drain the cell phone battery of the target mobile which may alert the owner of the spyware’s existence. Moreover, it is very important to update the software regularly to avoid any malfunctions and data loss.