Have you ever tried calling your teen and after dialing
his number, all you receive is the voicemail feedback on the other end “Hello,
this is Brad, leave a message” or as a mother you call out to your teen to come
and help you out in the kitchen and all you get as a reply is such sentences
like “Mum, I’m on the phone having a conversation with Whitney” Maybe your
son’s texting habit is getting so over the board and you keep feeling choked up
and frustrated like there’s nothing you can do about it. What about the times
you pick up your teen’s cell phone and going through his gallery and videos,
all you can see are sexually explicit images, photographic videos and all of
its contents.
Now, the big question remains: What can you do? Some
other questions that could be running through your mind are; how can I help my
teen? How do I stop this newly found addiction that he is getting himself into?
Do I restrict his connection to the home Wi-Fi or seize his cell phone
entirely? Should I sit him down and talk to him about this and ask him to stop
getting involved in adult stuffs when he is still a teen? Do I ground him at
home for two weeks as punishment? It all still boils down to the big question:
What can you do?
You can decide to disable the Wi-Fi connection at home
or restrict his cell phone from connecting to it. Kudos, you may think you’ve
won. But I assure you, that restriction ends right there at your front porch as
he’s stepping out. All he needs to do is visit a friend and that’s just it;
he’s back online. Confiscating his cell phone might be another option and well,
nice. But just when you thought you have won, he will go out there and get
himself a new one, with the pocket money that you give him of course, or even
by stealing from you to get one.
Sitting him down and talking some sense into his head
definitely sound like the best option available. Talk some sense into your teen
and let him realize how bad he has been acting. Help him to learn that there
are proper ways of using the cell phone. Let him realize that addiction to the
internet or computer is really bad and can cause some serious health problems
in the future. Teach him that though virtual relationships may seem real enough,
the truth remains that they can never be as real and as helpful as the physical
relationships that we have both emotionally, financially, supportively and
otherwise.
Kudos mum, dad! Nice speech, your speech may have done
the magic! But hey, wait! This is not the first time you have taken out the
time to teach and lecture
your child. The truth remains that most teen doesn’t take parental advice
at face value these days. They just wait patiently for you to finish your
gibberish so they can continue their unfinished chats.
This is the point where it becomes clear that you need
help with the discipline of your children. And fortunately for you, the
Surepoint spyware app can be your best choice. With Surepoint Spy, you can take
full control of how your teen uses the cell phone. The Surepoint Spy will help
you to control your teen in the following ways:
·
Have access to all
their incoming and outgoing SMS including deleted ones
·
Track their
movement and location anytime vis GPS
·
Listen and
intercept their calls if necessary
·
View all their
photos and video galleries
When you have access to all these information, you
would be better equipped with the knowledge of what is going on in the life of
your teen and this knowledge will help you to relate better with them. The
ability to remotely lock their phones can also be very useful when your teen
seemed too preoccupied with the cell phone or has been on call for such a long
time. You can remotely cut off the call or even lock down the phone for a given
period of time. The ability to track and trace their location can also come in
very useful someday.
Surepoint Spy is not a free
spy cell phone, but it is a powerful paid version (one-time low-cost fee)
that comes with powerful features and live customer service.
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